Married but Unloved? - Intimacy avoidance, sexual & pornography addiction help

Married but Unloved?

Is your relationship in crisis? Are you reeling from the pain of being cheated on? Is pornography destroying the intimacy in your relationship? Are you feeling married but unloved in your relationship because your partner seems unable or unwilling to connect?

There is hope that you can recover.

At Becoming Well, we specialize in helping both couple and individuals heal from the effects of infidelity, pornography and sex addiction, and intimacy avoidance. Let us help start you on a new path today.

Moving You from Shattered to Strong™

Matt and Laura Burton have trained over 1,000 leaders and staff from the Oregen Dept of Health and Human Services and Hawaii Dept of Human Services on

Sexual Trauma, Emotional Trauma, Physical Trauma, Porn/Sexual Addiction, Intimacy Avoidance/Anorexia, Partner Betrayal Trauma, Rejection-Abandonment-Inadequacy & Loss, Grief & Partner Grief, Medical Trauma, Impacts of Trauma and Addiction on Communities of Color, Impacts on the Partners

Matt and Laura Burton Keynoted the 2021 Kawai Fatherhood Conference

Becoming Well Workgroups

Becoming Well Recovery workgroups are for men striving to gain and maintain recovery from wounding their partners through physical infidelity, emotional infidelity, infidelity through pornography or intimacy avoidance (infidelity through withholding). Are you a man who is stuck in addiction, looking for accountability, or trying to break through the pain that infidelity has caused to your relationship? If so, Becoming Well workgroups are for you.

Becoming Well Courses

Intimacy Avoidance Couples Recovery Course (available Spring, 2024)

Rebuilding Trust Course (available Summer, 2024)

Mending After Betrayal Course (available Fall, 2024)

Intensives

Intensives are personalized to your specific needs and can jumpstart or deepen the healing process. Our 3-day intensives typically take 4-6 months-worth of recovery work and condense it into a few days’ time. Whether you are a couple or individual new to the recovery process, are already on your journey and need a boost, or feel hopelessly stuck or spiraling downward, a 3-day intensive could provide the foundation you need in order to win the battle.

Infidelity Recovery including:

Physical Infidelity
Emotional Infidelity
Infidelity through Pornography
Intimacy Avoidance (Infidelity through Withholding)

Pornography Addiction Recovery

Sexual Addiction Recovery

Betrayal Trauma Recovery

Sexless Marriage Recovery

What Our Clients are Saying

"Matt and Laura are compassionate, patient, funny, and full of grace- all the while holding us accountable for the work in recovery. They are a great team and with personal experience in all aspects of their teaching. We are looking forward to their guidance and direction as we continue to lean into recovery."

“Our experience as a couple working with Matt and Laura Burton has been nothing short of miraculous. After 41 years of marriage and no idea that IA was a real thing or was what we were struggling with, we were at the end of our marriage with no options in sight. After being referred to Matt just 3 months ago we are in a much better relationship than we ever imagined was possible. We have a long road ahead, but are dedicated to recovery."

“When I discovered that my husband had an addiction to pornography and sexual acting-out the first person that I reached out to was Matt Burton. Matt counselled me and helped me to understand the addiction and the trauma causing this addiction. He also guided me through organizing an intervention with my husband to help him find the resources that he needed to begin his healing process. I have a great deal of respect for Matt and his knowledge.”

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“At Becoming Well, we envision a world without the impact of relational trauma and brokenness.”